I have a very strong idea that I am not the person you are looking for. I have been the person who got tired of the excuses and “why me” mentality. I had to fight to get out of that rut.
There are two types of people who want to live life by their own rules. The first is someone who is a slave to the process, who’s afraid to take the risk. The second is someone who is willing to take the risk and be in a relationship with someone who will allow them the freedom to do so.
The first is the person who just has to be in control of their life and their actions. The second is someone who is willing to get in that relationship with someone who will force that person to allow them to take chances.
I think back to the first time I was attracted to a girl. I’d met her at a party once, and after a few weeks of flirting I decided to send her a text message. I was flirting with her and I didn’t know how to stop that, so I sent her a text message. She’d replied so quickly I sent her another, and that was it. I wanted her, and I wanted her to want me back.
I think that’s a great example of a “pushed button.” As a general rule, it is better to be pushy than to be passive. I think it is also better to want to do the wrong thing than to not want to do the wrong thing. This is especially true when you only have four options.
There is one final rule that I think is pretty universal when it comes to this art form: The goal is to be as good as you possibly can be. In an effort to become the best you can be, you must strive to be as good as you possibly can be. The way I see it is: If you try to be better than you are right now, you will fail. Thats a fact.
To the point, I think it is important for us to constantly strive to improve our art form. That applies to everything you do in your art form. The only way to achieve “perfection” is to continually strive to do better than you are at any given time. Which brings us to another rule of art: Don’t be a perfectionist. Be a better version of you.
What does it mean to be a better version of you? Well, if you want to be a better version of yourself you have to be better than you are right now. You can’t be a better version of you and be better than you are right now. That’s impossible. This is not a world where you can be a better version of yourself and be a better version of yourself. There is no such thing as being a better version of yourself.
This is a world where we are constantly trying to improve ourselves. We constantly go to extremes to be better, and we do so by continually changing ourselves. We are always trying to make ourselves better. If we were to try and be a better version of you, we would be trying to improve our lives, not ourselves.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news here, but the only way that you can be a better version of yourself is to try to change yourself. And, like, the only thing that you can be a better version of yourself is to try to become a better version of yourself.